There are a lot of guys (not necessarily you) who become outcome dependent ("I just want to get laid") because they believe that somehow, having sex with a woman will instantly improve their lives. It sounds like you're very far from that point. You want to develop outcome independence. If all you are looking for is to get laid, your desperation/neediness will become apparent in your interactions, and that will come across as unattractive. This is literally the exact opposite of investing in yourself. Now I "just" want to get laid with new women Which seems to be a problem for you, because: Putting it another way, it's about investing in yourself and developing an attractive lifestyle. "Honest communication" is only part of what Models is about. (Developing an attractive lifestyle and identity is a big part of what Mark Manson's writing is about.) "Just be yourself" only works if the "real you" is actually attractive. Vulnerability is the solution of everything and just be yourself So vulnerability works, but there's a trick to it. She said she loved that conversation because, in her words, I made myself vulnerable to her. hope is back on the radar." She swooned and we have banged every night since. I said "I know we've only been together for three weeks, but I'll just say. She asked where I was in the healing process. That led me to just have sex with a lot of random women, and I kind of got addicted to that. We laid down on her bed, and I said that I had gone through a really tough breakup about 4 months ago, and it made me lose my faith in commitment. We had already had sex a couple of times, but I wanted to own her soul, so I texted her saying we needed to have a tough conversation. So I decided to "make myself vulnerable" to a girl in the following way. One of the main ways of getting them aroused is to talk about how many women you've been with, but not directly. If you do this physically, you'll take a woman home.Īlso, I'm an RP'er, so I don't believe anything women say about what they want. If you just do this emotionally, then you'll end up with another nice little friend. Think about it this way: making yourself vulnerable is you extending the invitation to make your relationship with that person more meaningful. You aren't making yourself vulnerable by escalating physically. I would really appreciate some helpful comments and advice from you tomorrow morning. I'm very tired right now and will go to sleep. It seems like they are highly aroused by my moves and then byebye, you know :) I put everything I read in "Models" into practice but after all, they just say "no" or say nothing and go home with another guy the same night. I don't want to bother you with too much detail. finding a great job, doing sports, living at a fantastic place, making a lot of money, pursuing many great hobbies with passion etc.) Now I "just" want to get laid with new women, but that seems harder than anything I did before (incl. I had only 3 (long term) relationships in my life and had a lot of sex with my 3 ex-girlfriends. I'm 34 now, reading seddit and pick up advice for more than 2 years. as always), because I somehow must have got that concept completely wrong. But today, I just stopped my Saturday night early on and went home alone (again. So I went out almost every day and had a great time, meet many new friends and did what I like. I was curious about it, extremely motivated and on the rack to check it out live in the field. He is basically saying: Vulnerability is the solution of everything and just be yourself. I've finished Mark Manson's "Models" one month ago.
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